Volume 5 · The Great Indian Bazaar · Essay 94

Gossip Trap

A trap is a door that opens inward and locks behind you. Gossip Trap is such a door, and this page is a window.

Escaping it requires one unfashionable act: admitting the earlier step was wrong while the admission is still cheap. Pride charges compound interest on delayed admissions.

The village panchayat and the housing society meeting are the same animal in different clothes: five people deciding, fifty people complaining, and everyone leaving wiser than the minutes suggest.

Society is a long conversation; the only question is whether you are listening or merely waiting to speak. Write it on the wall of the mind, not the wall of the house. The house already has enough instructions.